PMS
For me, PMS is not pre-menstrual, or post-menstrual (as it used to for me) but now pre-mikveh.
After I get my period ceases for the cycle, I generally get moody : very cranky, irritable, snappish, headaches, total horror to be around. I don't think it's a iron thing.. I've tested fine. Anyway, it generally ends about a week after I stop bleeding. Now, that time frame has different meaning for me and my husband.
Now my husband has something tangible to use to guage my mood swings. Side benefit ? He now is looking forward to mikveh night! This past time *he* wrote it in his calendar and then reminded me of it (since I hadn't added it to my civil/daily) calendar yet. He was quite excited. We still a bit unsure of remembering kisses and things are now ok after I came back but our entire relationship in this time-period has improved greatly. :)
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Oh, that's wonderful! It makes a huge difference when one's husband becomes a "part" of the process (speaking from experience here!).
Oh, I'm so glad to hear that. It helps to be on the same "page" as your husband with regards to, well, to everything, but especially T"H.