Orthodox Infertility

Posted by Ruchama at 11:58 PM on January 3, 2007 in Hashkafa (Philosophy) and Infertility and Medical Issues.

Hirhurim has had some interesting posts recently on what is often called "halachic" or "Orthodox" inferility -- the infertility that results when an observant woman ovulates before the end of her seven "clean" days. The posts (here and here) are based on a media controversy that began in the Israeli religious Zionist publication HaTzofeh. In a March article, Rivka Shimon, a kallah teacher who advocated the abolition of the seven "clean days" in a Maariv...

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Still an Idiot

Posted by Ruchama at 11:55 PM on January 9, 2007 in Being Niddah and Psychological Aspects.

If you read this post and this post, you know that I am now using two forms of birth control, and that I don't always remember to use both. This time I forgot the pill -- for three days! -- and I didn't realize it until I spontaneously started bleeding. To be fair to myself, I didn't just "forget" for three consecutive days. I take several medications, and I usually put them, along with the...

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Why I Love A Man Besides My Husband

When we were dating, and when we were engaged, I heard my soon-to-be-husband talk a lot about his rebbeim. . . . When, a month or two after our wedding, I had to deal with some impossible personal problems, my husband had one piece of advice. “Call my rebbe,” he said.

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